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Yes I mean me....
Why do I feel like I always have to please others?
Is it the mother in me, or am I just soft?
The trouble is I leave myself open to criticism and being called things I'd rather not be.
If there is a problem I like to find a solution that makes everyone happy, yet to do so you need to ask questions from others and they just see it as me having a go or picking, instead of just letting the subject drop and ignoring it so others can moan again the next time or pick fault with my choices.
The thing is, it really is just a stupid little thing that shouldn't cause a big argument or even people to snap at each other, yet snap they do!!!
I wonder what the real problem is.
Is there a deeper problem?
Do I really want to know?
Yes I do, life shouldn't be like this, there is no need for it, no need for me to feel so bad about trying to please everyone and still do the best for people.
Maybe I am just a moaning old bag with nothing better to do than start fights?
I don't think so really, I'm just fed up of being picked on and I'm standing up for myself. If others don't like that then they can go and pick on someone else.
Yet why do I still feel so bad?