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Hubby's family have been......well what can I say???
He went to see his dad on Monday, and found his dad to be quite with it and alert, he asked how hubby was and it all came out.....
Everything, hubby told him about me and the kids not being welcome 8 days before, and the fact that mother-in-law didn't ask how any of us were.
Then hubby's dad asked why what was wrong with me, hubby couldn't believe it, neither could I, he had never been told I have ME/CFS the same as his niece has had for 20+ years.
He told hubby he would love to see me and the kids, and would never tell us not to come, he had no idea how bad I was and didn't realise what was wrong, but he now understood why we hadn't been there as often as we might have been.
So on Tuesday hubby took me and the kids to see his dad and the look in his eyes, told me just how sorry he was to find out about me being ill, he didn't have to say a word. I'm going to try and get to see him on Friday next week if I have got rid of this damm cold by then.
Well that's half my week; the other half of the tale is still making me so angry I can't believe it really.
My late fathers will is still not sorted; I went to see the Probate manager on Tuesday and ended up telling him he needed to do the rest of his job, as he had missed parts out.
I wouldn't mind but my father always paid his bills on time, and owed no one a penny, so to find some of his utility bills still not paid after this long is disrespect to his name and ours (his children).
OK maybe not mine as I'm married with a different name but it is still mine, its part of me, part of who I am.
I now find myself questioning everything that has or has not been done over the past year.
I just wish this was all done and finished, but I'm not happy to sign off on things when they haven't been done right. Dad wouldn't so why should I????
Then to top it all off I came out with a stinking head cold on Wednesday, so bad I could not think straight, or do anything.
My biggest question was, if it was just a cold or my ME/CFS kicking me from all the stress I've just been put under?
I need to go de-stress with my tissues and blanket.........Son put the kettle on please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!